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Mapping Your Journey to Success

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So I am sitting here at my desk writing my September map. Yea… “writing” my map… I have to, without it I am like a headless chicken going blindly in circles.

I refer to myself as a Jane of All Trades and ‘Work-In-Progress-Master of Most’ (if not all). At any given time I have countless ideas swirling around my mind…like noise…mental noise. Every time I had a thought I began to pursue it and neglect the former idea I was pursuing. This resulted in a lot of half-completed plans and half way achievements. Not good. I had to think of a way to control my ideas and bring each of them to fruition in a sensible fashion and stop wasting energy and time chasing every thought.

According to a study by the Ford Foundation:
• 23% of the population has no clue what they want from life and as such, they have very little.
• 67% of the population has a general idea what they want out of life, but no clue how to attain it.
• 10% of the population has specific goals
• Only 7 out of that 10 achieve their goals half the time
• The top 3% achieved the goals 89% of the time

The difference between the 3% elite group and the rest was: THEY WROTE DOWN THEIR GOALS!!! Can you believe it? Sounds too simple, right?

But it kinda makes sense, doesn’t it? Goal-setting is like a map - it guides us to our destination, allowing us to have a bird’s eye view of the route. We can avoid time-wasting dead ends and detours. Dreams and wishes become goals when they are written; in some strange way writing them down materializes them and makes them probable. I like the phrase “dreams with a deadline” which I have heard used to describe goals.

These are tips to creating my maps for success:
• Get a calendar as visual aid; the mind tends to follow what is in front of it.
• Set aside an hour a day to plan. Force yourself into the habit.
• Work backwards- Focus on your long term goals and decide what short term activities will lead to your long term target.
• Plan tomorrow the night before- While you sleep, your mind will organize your time. I have a white board by my desk that I write my daily tasks on. Then at the end of the day I erase the accomplished ones and leave the undone ones for the next day. Of course the aim is to erase them all!!!
• Start the day with a mental run-down of your agenda. Then just do them! Walk with an idea notebook to jot anything that comes to mind.
• Of course keep in mind that there may be obstacles. Plan for these proactively and not re-actively. Just steer around the obstacles and keep on moving.
• Reward yourself when you achieve your goals. Give yourselves mini-incentives to go even further. But if course don’t waste time patting yourself on the back for too long…there is still lots to do!

Anyhoo my friends, I am going back to my mapping! See you at the finish line of success!

7 comments to “Mapping Your Journey to Success”

  1. Oh so true.

    I wrote out a 15-year plan broken down into 5-year segments when I was 15 (I am 27 now). It was a high level overview but went into details on specific things (like net worth, which magazines I wanted to be featured in, etc.)

    I have also kept a book with me for so many years, especially beside the bed. I write down my ideas that pop into my head in them, on like my 5th one now. I also keep a whiteboard with goals for the month.

    Richard Branson keeps a book as well :-)

  2. Great post and something I myself can learn from. I can really relate to the “mental noise” you mentioned, and writing short term task lists and long term goals can really help bring clarity and focus. Thank you again for reminding me to take time to write. Lol, after all if David Mullings and Richard Branson do it then I need to start. ;-)

    Congrats on the blog launch and best of luck.

  3. Another bright idea i must say. If i say so for myself, mapping is a positively good idea as it enables us to attain our realisable goals. I’ve used mapping on few occasions and it pays off quite well. Thanks for yet another food for thought. Brilliant!

  4. David, it seems we have much in common. We must have been related in a former life.. LOL!

    Ray, let me know if the ‘mental noise’ is quieted somewhat after you start mapping!

    Audra, I would love to hear examples of mapping working for you. This will help to reinforce the concept…seeing it work in ‘real life’

  5. This will be my inspiration for the month…. The journey is officially in effect.

    Thanks P!!

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